By Safe Call Now® President & Founder - Sean Riley |
I always enjoy seeing my dear friend and co-presenter
Forensic Police Psychologist Dr. Laura Brodie (I’ll talk about her later). As many first responders know, being ordered
to visit the psychologist is usually not a career enhancer. First off they’re usually sub-contracted by
the department and the perception is that they may be biased on the side of the
department because that’s who’s paying the bill. Right, wrong or indifferent the door is wide
open to challenge this and the first responder knows that some kind of report
is going back to their agency.
With that in mind, do you really think the first responder
is going to reveal their deepest, darkest secrets that may jeopardize his/her
employment and their ability to provide for their family? Hence the double edged sword. If I do reveal myself I could potentially be
impacted in a negative manner with my employment. If I don’t, I suffer inside. Either way it’s a system set up to fail. There are going to be a lot of police
psychologist out there that are going to “rip” me over this post but I can only
tell you about my experiences and those that are reported to me throughout the
country by first responders and their experiences with you.
I speak at many conferences and we address the departmental
psychologist at great length. The
overall consensus from the first responders is that you’re not trusted, you’re
arrogant, egotistical and the only job of the first responder is to “beat you”
in all aspects of the session. Let me
explain further.
I was sent to fitness-for-duty on three occasions in my
career (rightfully so) and I remember meeting with the contracted police
psychologist and psychiatrist. I was an
interview and interrogation specialist and unfortunately also in the middle of
my addiction to narcotic pain medication which made me pathetically one hell of
a manipulator and liar to the nth degree.
My goal was always to get back to the job which I did each time. I always played to the “ego” of the
clinicians which was unfortunately easy for me to do and I got them
talking. It was amazing to me how much
they would talk about themselves and my report back to the department would
usually read… He was engaging, asked
appropriate questions, sent him on his way with medication, etc… Really???
My report would be sent to the command staff and now they
were confused as my behavior was not matching the report provided to them by
the psych. So why do I tell you all of
this? First responders around the
country report this similar experience over and over to me. For the most part no one really knows where
the psych stands (ethically they’re supposed to tell you but it doesn’t always
happen). Do they work for me or the
department? They say me but they’re paid
for by the department and report to the departments so… here lies the
adversarial relationship.
So how do we overcome this?
Remember, just because you have many educational degrees and
certifications from reputable organizations around the country doesn’t mean
you’re any good. To the first responder
you are the potential barrier they have to overcome to not lose their
career. I’ve always advised departments
to look outside to a third party clinician who has no vested interest in the
department such as the ones we use at Safe Call Now®. The most successful programs in the world use
this model (the doctors and airline pilots have for 40 years) and they have the
highest long term success rate known to mankind.
Don’t our first responders deserve the same? Enter… Dr. Laura Brodie. I remember meeting her for the first time and
wondering what bull$*#t this psych was going to lay on me? Then she “called me out” on one of my
behaviors. Needless to say I was not
happy about it but she was right. I
wanted to know more. As we developed a
friendship I understood that her only job was to advocate for the first
responder and help them get better. The
“third party” I spoke about earlier.
First responders love this woman, she’s tough, loving,
compassionate and she’s trusted. She
speaks their language which from my experience and others that have reported to
me are few and far between. There are
outstanding psychologist and psychiatrist out there and I’ve met them and they
save lives. All I know is what I see and
experience and I do know that people like Dr. Brodie are few and far
between. We’re very lucky she’s an integral
part of Safe Call Now®.
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